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Originally Posted by JimmyTheHutt
I do not mean this as an insult: How old are you?
The reason I ask is this: your life experience is going to dramatically alter your perspective on these kinds of things, and that normally only accrues with time.
From the sounds of things, right now you are attracted and interested in this girl. But there is a LOT more that goes into being "in love". From personal experience I can tell you that when it happens, it will change EVERYTHING.
The important thing to remember is this: you have absolutely nothing to lose by taking a chance here. If she rejects you and wants nothing to do with you, she wasn't your friend in the first place. If she reciprocates, you may have started something good.
And there is only one way to find out how its going to go.
Veritas et Lux!
Jimmy The Hutt
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I'm 21.
When it comes to relationships I am quite... unexperienced. I shy away from girls because of lack of self confidence.
As for the rest of life, I'm not sure how experienced I am. When it comes to taking care of myself, I can do better than 95% of my friends.
I've had an odd life and upbringing, so you may not be able to understand how I think.
But anyway, I didn't think it was "love" but it was the best word I could think of. I know it's odd what I feel for her, but love doesn't exactly fit. At least, not yet.
She's going to Japan for a few weeks, and I think I'm gonna go "under" so I can focus on work and working out so I can get in better shape. My self confidence is lacking because of that.
Anyway, thanks for the help.