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If she confesses her love when she is sober, then state: "no. this was our agreement. I have no feelings for you. Do you want to cut things off?"
await her response.
Until then, I would pretend that the drunken confession never happened. If she asks about it, you can say something along the lines of "I never believe anyone when they're drunk."
Looks like you're putting your kids first. The fact that she is getting so plastered drunk is not healthy or safe. She needs to learn to take care of herself. For this reason alone, she would not make a good mother. Just another angle to work, if she doesn't understand why you're not interested in anything deep.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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