snowy

Well, in our case, because we were emotionally close as friends, and he was rather inexperienced in the relationship/sex department, communication had to be ongoing to keep the boundaries clear. Like I said--every relationship of this kind is different, the people are different, and everyone has different expectations of how something like this will go down. For some people, communication IS necessary because it keeps both sides clear on what's going down.

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