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Yup, the vibe will definitely desensitize you...one thing I like to do is restrict myself to once a week with the vibe so that when I do use it, I can use it at a lower speed and still get off. The other thing is, try putting the toy away for a while and just try doing it manually, perhaps with another kind of aid--erotica, naughty stories, a video, etc. Give your nerves time to recuperate. Then bring the toy back into play...but do it the other way around...try bringing yourself to orgasm with the toy and then letting your hubby finish the job. But remember, limit yourself to once a week, or buy a vibe that is less intense.
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