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Originally Posted by slimshaydee
If you want to get over her the quickest the best way is to completely cut her off and not hang on to friendship hoping that somehow she'll change her mind and fall head over heels for you.
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It's been said a few times already, but it's the best (and hardest to follow) advice you'll ever get about breaking up. If you really WANT to get over her (which many people do not, if they would be honest with themselves), you MUST cut off all contact. Anything else is delusion and will keep you from moving on and finding your own self again.
Most people I've seen go through break-ups (myself included) are too weak to *really* want to get over someone... they just keep hanging on and drawing it out, hoping something, somehow, will happen. But it doesn't work. It is not respectful to yourself, and it's not healthy in any way. Masochistic, rather. Don't do it, man. Cut off and move on.