I am sorry, but unless you cut her out of your life, you will be hurt. Even being supportive of other aspects of her life is somewhat enabling. Drop her a line and let her know that you are done untill she wants to get clean, and then you will help her. Then stick to it, it will suck, but it must be done.
If you decide not to follow my advice, make sure its not because you are a co-dependant person. Those personality types tend to get stuck in bad cycles like this.
Good luck.
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