No matter how she is feeling, her boys come first, and I have a feeling that is what is floating on the top of her head. She needs to provide them a secure home first, and so from what you have said I get the impression she's as many precautions as she can to find out whether this is something that could work.
As long as you realize her boys come first, if you are [i]truly[/] willing to wait for her .... use this time to deepen your friendship.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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