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The threat is a control thing as these others will attest to. As long as he thinks you will stay so he doesn't do any harm to himself, he has you. Many have gone through it one way or another. The man may threaten suicide or harm to the woman or her family-anything to keep her there. ( he did that 'DO IT' knowing full well you wouldn't)
I concur-RUN! Hopefully the most he'll do is a drama bit that lands him in the ER. Either way, it is not your burden to shoulder. If you love him, offer to get him help to work through it. You don't say how long you've been together or what his history is with other girlfriends. It'd be interesting for you to find out. Please don't feel sorry for him and do something you feel would only be to keep him from doing harm. Don't give him that kind of control.
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
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