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Is there any way you can speak with those that love him and express your concern? Any contact with his close family or friends. Explain what has happened to a few select individuals that you know will be an unyeilding support for this man. Do what you can to set him up with a support group.
Then walk away completely.
You need to stay away from this man. And here's why:
I dated someone who was a tamer version of this. We were together for three months, then I decided we weren't right for one another. Told him we needed to see other people. He was terribly depressed/alcoholic/suicidal for over 6 months. I tried to let him know that I cared about him and that I cared about his health and well-being. That I loved him as a person, but that we just weren't going to work out. I went on to date someone else. He saw this as competition and in order to "prove" that he was somehow more "manly" than the other guy, he eventually decided to RAPE me.
This guy is unstable. You can't know what he will do next. Even though he loves you, and you love him, you need to run. Since you love him, be sure there are folks to support him.
Take off. From a girl who has been there.
-GG
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"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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