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This happened to me once before... I was 14 years old, I was attempting to lose my virginity with my 15 year old girlfriend, and yea basically psyched myself out of sex. Basically all kinds of thoughts ran through my head at once, from how to use the condom, to how to satisfy her, not getting her prengnant, std's, her parents coming home, the fact that my friend was in the next room banging on the doors and walls, to being naked with a girl for the first time... I guess it was too much thinking that all of a sudden it became a chore to get it up. It took forever.
Well low and behold, her parents indeed end up coming home and while i was attempting to shove my semi-erect penis into her, her mom was already knocking on the door... so in the end i didnt get to lose my virginity and I had to wait another 3 years before I got the chance again (mostly by choice)
So anyway, I would just not think so much next time, just try to think about how good it will feel, and then you will be worrying about trying not to cum after a minute. Hope all works out
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