"Not a factor in remaining close in a romantic relationship."
That was my choice and I'll tell you why. If you make sex the most, or even close to the most important, aspect of a relationship, it's going to almost always be doomed to failure. Sooner or later someone in the relationship is going to lose their sex drive-- It's inevitable. If your relationship is largely based on sex, when the sex goes so does the relationship. I've seen it happen a few times, as a few good friends of mine went through the same thing.
Sex is great and all, but it shouldn't dictate why you're with with the person you're with (If that makes sense). Meh... Whatever happened to love, friendship, the ability to communicate, understanding and all of those old-fashioned concepts?
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