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so today is one week from when we did our stuff. personally, i would imagine that after 1 full week, if there were a chance at pregnancy, or if i were pregnant, i would feel something by now. tender boobs, sickness, something. this leads me to believe that i have just led myself on. i do agree with ngdawg that it shouldn't be shameful, but as our parents do not know what we do and we have vowed to ourselves and each other to "wait for marriage," you can imagine how i feel after a lapse in this vow.
for a little update for anyone who wishes to know, i do not feel sick at all, my boobs do not hurt at all, and i have been feeling a bit crampy the past few days. this crampy stuff, i am wondering if that is my "period" that just isn't bleeding. perhaps the stress, heat, extreme period of last month, and just everything, is making my period so light this month that all i am feeling is slightly crampy.
i am trying to stay positive about teh entire situation. we do not want to be pregnant now, and i know we should have taken precautions, or hell, not have done anything to begin with, but since the past is over, i am trying to stay positive about it. i think that since it hsa been a week with no symptoms of pregnancy, we are okay. if we lapse again, which i hope not to do, we will take precautions, i have had enough scares.
the ony thing that bugs me is why i dont have my period. any help at all would be accepted gratefully, any advice or assistance. again, thank you all.
one last thing, if i don't have my period, but still do not feel any symptoms of pregnancy, when woudl be the appropriate time to use a home pregnancy test? i am hoping it doesn't come to that, but just wondering.
thanks.
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