maleficent

I'm a little less zen than Ratbastid is -but my defition of confidence is close - it's being ok with who you are... and a good part of that comes from knowing who you are...

Unconfident guys are those who are always trying to prove something... whether it's that they are betterthan someone else, or what have you. that's not confidence.

but the confident person isn't always settling for who he is either, he/she is also trying to better him/herself for their own purpose - not for anyone else..

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