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ASU2003 · 07-17-2006, 07:30 AM

Girls always say they are looking for a confident guy. Well, can you define what it is?

Is it knowing that you are right, correct, and know what you are doing?

Is it the lack of fear, and disregarding being hurt emotionally?

Is it high self-esteem?

Maybe it’s being able to convince other people to give you what you want. You aren’t embarrassed to ask for anything.

Knowing that you are better than the other people around you. You have more money, a better job, nicer car, bigger house, got better grades, taller than most, and your size is bigger than normal guy.

That you are comfortable with yourself and have nothing to hide. You have no secrets that might come up 3 months later.

Maybe it’s as simple as having an opinion and sticking with it. If some one asks you where you want to go for dinner, you make up your mind and will go there, they can come along if they would like to. If they don’t want to go to that restaurant, well, you will meet up with them after dinner.

I’m sure some of these are borderline arrogant, but which ones are which?

07-17-2006, 07:30 AM	#1 (permalink)
ASU2003 immoral minority Location: Back in Ohio	Define confidence Girls always say they are looking for a confident guy. Well, can you define what it is? Is it knowing that you are right, correct, and know what you are doing? Is it the lack of fear, and disregarding being hurt emotionally? Is it high self-esteem? Maybe it’s being able to convince other people to give you what you want. You aren’t embarrassed to ask for anything. Knowing that you are better than the other people around you. You have more money, a better job, nicer car, bigger house, got better grades, taller than most, and your size is bigger than normal guy. That you are comfortable with yourself and have nothing to hide. You have no secrets that might come up 3 months later. Maybe it’s as simple as having an opinion and sticking with it. If some one asks you where you want to go for dinner, you make up your mind and will go there, they can come along if they would like to. If they don’t want to go to that restaurant, well, you will meet up with them after dinner. I’m sure some of these are borderline arrogant, but which ones are which?