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Originally Posted by lilfle
yes, i do feel guilty, we have talked numerous times, and we both agree that it needs to stop, we both want it to stop, we are working at it, that is a huge part, but i am also just totally freaked out because we did it even though we know we shouldnt.
the chance of pregnancy is so slim though, right, considering no semen was even near my vagina? thats' what i'm hanging on to, but the guilt and the fact that i am going on 3 days late here does also really play on my nerves and then that makes it worse. it is a viscious cycle...
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First, you need to calm down. Second, you really need to educate yourself. For a woman of 20, you really don't seem to know very much regarding such intimacy (unless of course you aren't 20, which is a whole other issue).
Understand that sexual intercourse isn't simply for procreation, it's expression, it's sharing, it's supposed to be fun, not riddled with guilt.
I don't know why you think this is such an awful thing that you're driving yourself crazy over it; whether it's upbringing, religion or whatever, you really
really have to
understand that it's a natural act, not a shameful one and when there's deep love, it's the ultimate moment two people can have together.
Please get educated and get rid of this guilt that's making you nuts.