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If you are feeling like this then you are not ready for buying a house or having kids. Both of those things will drive you two apart more than help any relationship problems you may have. Those two things are great experiences when a couple is READY for them. You don't sound ready.
As other's said here, you should get away on your own or together. I probably would advise you to do a little of both. Even a day trip a couple times a month is very theraputic.
I personally would suggest that you don't throw in the towel just yet. Something drew you to her in the first place and after several years of living together you still wanted to marry. There's SOMETHING to the relationship that kept you hooked for so long. Just take the time to figure that out before you bind yourselves to a house and kids.
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My Karma just ran over your Dogma. 
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