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I get itchy feet every now and again. I tell Turbotom, and we go backpacking, travel someplace unexpected, or take a night out for the two of us... change things up a little to keep things interesting. and it works. and we're here for one another. granted, our relationship is young in comparison with yours, but it's something to mention.
we have found that we can wander together through this world, and that knowledge is our strength through the more mundane parts of life. We know that another adventure is right around the corner.
you like going on adventures. Is there any way to adapt your hiking trips, camping excusions, afternoons at the gym, etc to involve her? Maybe if she tries these things, she will have a blast. Is it your friends that are keeping her away, or the activities themselves?
Sounds like you desperately need her to do something that shows you she's interesting - beyond the bedroom. Face it: personality has a lot to do with attraction.
How are you two communicating?
How much are you willing to do? If she goes with you to the gym once a week, are you willing to sit back and work on your embroidery (or whatever seemingly mundane task most interests her) for an hour or two a week?
Pick her up in your arms, tell her you love her, that you need some excitement in your life right now, and present her with two tickets to [insert exciting location here]. dunno... worked for me. now I never want to leave the guy.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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