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monkeysugar · 07-15-2006, 05:55 PM

Dump her. Run, don't walk to the nearest phone and dump her. Since that's a whole hell of a lot easier said than done, you might sit down and have a conversation with her the next time she pulls this sort of thing. Tell her how you are perceiving her actions and how they make you feel. Try to stay calm, collected, and focused. Maybe even write down things ahead of time so you can get your thoughts out about what you want to say.

If this doesn't help, dump her. Are you getting what you need out of this relationship? Could you do better? (yes, you could.)

07-15-2006, 05:55 PM	#18 (permalink)
monkeysugar I'll be on the veranda, since you're on the cross. Location: Rand McNally's friendliest small town in America. They must have strayed from the dodgy parts...	Dump her. Run, don't walk to the nearest phone and dump her. Since that's a whole hell of a lot easier said than done, you might sit down and have a conversation with her the next time she pulls this sort of thing. Tell her how you are perceiving her actions and how they make you feel. Try to stay calm, collected, and focused. Maybe even write down things ahead of time so you can get your thoughts out about what you want to say. If this doesn't help, dump her. Are you getting what you need out of this relationship? Could you do better? (yes, you could.) __________________ I've got the love of my life and a job that I enjoy most of the time. Life is good.