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thingstodo · 07-15-2006, 01:10 PM

You need to decide what you want the long term to look like. Sometimes you just need to grow up. Seriously. Of course, I don't know anything about you other than what I've read here, so that 's my caveat.

I got married when I was 19. That was 31 years ago. Yes, I'm still married to the same woman. I had a chance to do all sorts of things before hand since I played in a band for several years, so I was able to work out some of the kinks.

But let me tell you, there were hard times along the way. m The thing is, we both had a long view of things and both worked through all of our troubles - still do today. And I wouldn't change a thing.

07-15-2006, 01:10 PM	#19 (permalink)
thingstodo A Storm Is Coming Location: The Great White North	You need to decide what you want the long term to look like. Sometimes you just need to grow up. Seriously. Of course, I don't know anything about you other than what I've read here, so that 's my caveat. I got married when I was 19. That was 31 years ago. Yes, I'm still married to the same woman. I had a chance to do all sorts of things before hand since I played in a band for several years, so I was able to work out some of the kinks. But let me tell you, there were hard times along the way. m The thing is, we both had a long view of things and both worked through all of our troubles - still do today. And I wouldn't change a thing. __________________ If you're wringing your hands you can't roll up your shirt sleeves. Stangers have the best candy.