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I'm with tippler on this one.. you guys are being just a lil' harsh.
However, Smooth.. this is something that you two need to discuss, not us. Make it clear to her (without demanding, arguing, or even pleading) that you'd really like to spend time with her and it would make you happy if she could schedule some time for just you two. There's a huge difference between saying "WELL, I'd APPRECIATE IT (with a demanding tone) IF YOU COULD MAKE SOME TIME FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND" and sayin that "I'd really like to spend some more time with you, just you and me." "Do you think we could schedule a time for just us?"
If, after emotion-filled and honest discussion you cannot seem to get any of her time, then follow the tried and true:
'Never make someone a priority when they only make you an option'
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