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I think you're all coming down too hard on him. People get jealous, he's trying to work through that. I would also be sad to know that the one day I have a few free hours to spend with my partner, especially after being apart a long time, they choose to go do something else, with people they can be with every and any day. At the same time, it's only been a month. I think you need to cool down and be patient. Try and spend more time with her, and never mention this friend. If you let it go, it'll blow over for her too. If she's smart she will see through the guy's tricks, and if she likes you enough, she won't cheat. Just wait and enjoy what time you can spend together. It's too soon to come down that hard.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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