Shes 35, I'm 21
So I met this girl at the gym and apparently she's had the hots for me for a long time and now I'm finally single. She didn't think I would be interested because she's 35 and thought she'd be too old for me. I'm not one to discriminate and I've never dated an older woman before but have always wondered about it. I'm not looking for anything serious right now, just looking to have some fun and I don't think she's looking for a serious relationship either.
Here's the problem. Its nothing with her, rather my parents. This girl and I hung out last night and I told my parents I was going out with a friend from the gym. They were fine with that. They just don't know that shes 35. I know my mom is going to throw a shit fit when she finds out, which she eventually will. My mom goes to the same gym as me and we know a lot of the same people. Also, word travels fast around the gym, but I don't think anybody will tell my mom about this girl; well, at least her age. Anywho, I know my parents probably won't approve of this girl being 35, but frankly I don't care. I guess I'm just looking for some advice on how to handle the situation. This girl is really cool and a lot of fun. I just want to casually date her and have some fun, but I don't know what my parents think. I know it'll mainly be my mom. She'll just say "What are you doing with a 35 year old?" Honestly I don't know what she'll say, but its only a matter of time before she finds out. I want to try to keep a secret as long as I can though. Should I just come out and tell her she's 35? What should I do?
Thanks guys.
-BigD
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