This girl sounds like someone my old roommate use to date, but she was 30, not 19. Basically, she was nice, but she could never admit to being wrong, could never lose an arguement, and would blatantly lie to him and to other people in front of him. Not to mention, she would cheat on him behind his back.
The fact is, some people are just like this for one reason or another, and if you know that your girlfriend is like this, you can live with it or break it off.
From what you described of her, I have little hope that discussing these problems constructively will do any good. She will probably deny she's doing anything wrong or make excuses. I could be wrong, but this is just my take.
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