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Well, I'm tempted to paraphrase Melvin from the movie "As good as it gets", and say that if you want to talk to your girlfriend constructively, then imagine you're talking to a man, and then take away reason and accountability...
However, I agree 100% with absorbentishe... next time she abuses you on the phone, just hang up. Don't play the part of a victim, as that is the role in which you will be put. Seriously... it's quite possible that you two just need to work some stuff out, and maybe she's unconciously pushing you... but the longer you let her walk over you and your feelings, the longer things are going to be shitty. Don't let her treat you like shit (which it sounds like she is doing), and take a stand. You might be surprised at her reaction.
Mr Mephisto
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