maleficent

all you can do is point out when she does something how it makes you feel... It's not your place to point the finger and say you do this you do that blah blah... It's just your perception of things...

If she tells you to shut up, when someone else talks to her, that is the time to stick up for yoursel... maybe say, that's not respectful to me, telling me to shutup, call me back when you can talk. (or something) The issue generally has to be addressed while it's happening or shortly thereafter, from your perspective

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