I remember that last post about standing at her father's eulogy then getting 'cut off'.
I don't know the timelines here, but would benefit of the doubt be that she had a lot to get over and was otherwise preoccupied with it all? Her father died, she's trying to go to school, etc.
She might very well be a taker, but perhaps she's not taking from you because she feels you're weak but because she knows you're strong?
There's no harm in writing her, giving your address. Should she actually send an invitation, you could decline it then. But there's a lot of conjecture and what if's and 'she did this and that' and not once has there been any mention made of anything resembling talking. My own suggestion would be a message or note stating your decision to decline or accept the invite would be contigent on you two actually TALKING first and clearing the air. You have nothing to lose by doing so. If she puts that off as well, then you have your answer as to how important a friendship with you is and can move on accordingly.
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