male: In regards to children and a house... I don't feel that children and a house will make me "old". Its more of the feeling that if I am freaking out (I think I am) I would much rather do it now than later. I don't even want to think about involving children in something like this. Although some people do eh?
rod: We do have our seperate times throughout the week, especially when it comes to our social lives, she has always disliked the friends I have made. They are too much like me... loud and proud. Also I have become very physical this last year... and she has no ambition to take part in anything that I do. The gym, a good hike or run. She likes the kind of activities that you don't have to break a sweat at. Except sex of course. So...
amp: I know its not healthy for our marriage. Nor for myself. She seems to think that everything is perfect. Maybe it is for her. Everyday I feel like shit because I don't find her interesting anymore.
tec: I have thought lots about this. On and off for the last year and a half.
pyscho: I plan on talking to her very soon.
zeraph: I am thinking that a seperation would be the best thing for us right now. Just need some time to find out what I want. Because I have been asking myself that lately and all I keeping answering is freedom. That sounds lame I suppose.
ndawg: thanks for your input too, it is greatly appreciated.
It's hard to comprehend for some b/c it is so one sided. There is so much involved.
So much to say... its all a mess in my head.
Thanks everyone for your responses so far.
Kris.
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