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Originally Posted by Zeraph
I have no personal experience with marriage so I have no real advice, just a pondering.
Something I don't understand yet with marriage is why its either stay together or get divorced (leave permanently). Why can't you take a year or even a two year break (complete break, live in different areas, only thing is you wouldn't see other people)? Like just keep living apart until you make a decision.
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With way too many, it's all or nothing. I'm married to one of those types, when a 'well, maybe not ALL' would be better suited to me. That's where the 'trapped' feeling comes in. Some won't compromise and share their SO's...others would rather share than lose them and some revel in the sharing part, knowing the best is their own.