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Originally Posted by ChasingAmy
Well here I am again.
Is it strange that all I really want right now in life is to be alone? In solitude? I think some time by myself would give me great opportunity to reflect on what I have done with my life... and what I want to do with it. It all seems right in my mind.
I am at a different place than my wife is right now. The pressure of kids... and now the purchase of a house are really freaking me out!! And as simple as it is for her to say "We don't have to have kids right now." or "We don't have to buy a house right now." For me there is a lot more to it than that. I practically got married out of high school. Living with her from the start (8 years). 3 Years ago when we got married it seemed so right then. But now not so much. I am being lazy maybe... I don't want life to be so complicated right now. I guess I just want to escape and do my own thing right now without having to worry about anyone else.
Does this sound shallow? Only thinking about my own well being? I am so lost. There is so much that I feel I can experience yet.
Is this a pre-mid-life crisis? Is this normal?
Dazed and confused...
Kris.
Cheers.
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In the above....we see the word "I" used 13 times by my count....how many times do we see "We".
We all need to be selfish now and then, to make up for selflessness.....perhaps an evaluation of these two aspects of life are in order. No one can tell you what choice to make, as it is your own. But, we can ask you to take this seriously, and consider the implications of your actions.
Just My Opinion