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How to deal with being emotionally needy is for YOU to deal with it. It sounds like there are deeper issues, either for you or in your relationship, so figure out the problem and deal with it.
You sound like you're just waiting for her to leave you... is this because you think she doesn't want you anymore or that she is just waiting for something better to come along? Is it because you are waiting for her to figure out that you aren't the person she thinks you are? What really is the issue? If you don't trust her, then you shouldn't be with her. If you are lacking confidence and self-esteem (which you are, if you need her reassurances to have them), then you should work on that and stop trying to push off the issues onto a relationship that is functioning well enough.
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(Michael Jordan)
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