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Originally Posted by ASU2003
I think the problem I am having with my communication technique is not being able to come up with things to talk about with other people, or just being unable to come up with anything to say after the initial "Hello, how are you." or whatever obvious question I have. And if other people start a conversation with me, I know that they want to talk to me, so it is much better.
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Conversational, friend, aquaintence:
Only a certian type of person starts a conversation with a person he or she has never met before. I call these people talkative. The way to find talkative people is to find them and hang out with them. Talkitive people tend to find other talkative people.
More than friend:
Well this one is a bit more complicated. While generally speaking people can get chatted up anywhere, there are places specifically suited for intruductions and conversations with people that you might be interested in or who might be interested in you. More often than not, people are open in date or relationship type venues, such as bars, coffee houses, movie theaters, clubs, church (you heard me), school, etc. You're more likely, at least from my experience, to find conversationalists here. My favorite spot, from my single days, was the college book store or library. People can't shut up in there, because they're bored from studying.