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Originally Posted by ratbastid
It was actually all the pressure I had put on her to be close to me that had been the problem in our relationship in the first place.
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That was the problem with us. I almost let it slip that I thought I loved her and it scared her off.
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Originally Posted by ratbastid
The analogy I use here is: ever played with a puppy? A puppy's favorite game is to dance around just out of arm's reach. If you lunge for the puppy, it'll skitter away from you. You'll NEVER catch the puppy. But if you sit down and be still, the puppy will come up and investigate you. If you're still enough and don't make any sudden moves, the puppy might even climb into your lap. Make the puppy come to you.
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That's a great analogy. I had something similar in my mind but that's probably the best way to put it.
Thanks for the great advice