slimshaydee

for someone to act after a breakup if they wish to have the best possible opportunity at a future time to get back with someone. Now before anyone says anything, I know you can't change how someone feels (the reason we broke up was because she didn't think she felt the same way anymore) and that I should move on. I want to move on, and have been having a blast the last 4-5 days as a single guy partying with mates. However, I would like to keep the option open for the future because she was a great girl to be around and we always had fun together. If it we don't end up back together though it's not a problem as I'm 21 and still have plenty of my life ahead of me and won't have trouble finding new girls while I'm still young.

After we broke up we talked for a little while and actually had a bit of a laugh about things and she was adament that we should still be friends. She told me that she feels for me more as a friend now, which is new to me since I've never been able to have plutonic female friends as we've always ended up sleeping together at some stage, and I've always cut off all contact with other girls after we've broken up.

Anywho, the stupid thing I did was to be immature about it the next day when we were talking on msn. I was saying very stupid things and it pretty much pissed her off. However I rang her later to apologise, and I have been real mature about things when talking to her since the breakup (we've talked a few times on msn for short periods).

Where should I go from here if I want to have her an an option in case things change in the future? This is a new experience for me and any advice would be greatly appreciated.