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I'm a fan of putting a little space between me and my sister. I love her to death, and enjoy spending time with her. But that's only when we're not in one another's space all day.
All i'm saying is: yeah, it's junky. But she's your sister. things aren't changing anytime soon, and for the family's sake it's best to keep up with relations. find something that helps you relate. talk to her about it. enjoy conversation occasionally. figure out ways to ditch her without being rude yourself when you've had enough of her junky attitude. She'll have the impression that you love her to death, you'll see the good in her before too long. hostility dissipates when you take away the buttons.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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