It sounds like your sister probably has some resentment toward you, and who knows where that comes from. But chances are her husband only hears her very skewed side of things, and reacts like an idiot. If you've examined your actions deeply and honestly, and really can't find anything you're doing to upset her, then this is her problem. You have a couple of choices, which you might try as progressive options:
1. request a change of behavior on their part
2. ignore the behavior
3. sever the relationship
I wish you luck - people's motivations are mysterious, and in the end you only control how you react to things.
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