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MySexyAssJ · 07-03-2006, 04:12 PM

::sorry if its kinda long...::

Ever since I was little I've had problems with my older sister. One minute she'll be my best friend and then within a blink of an eye she'll turn on me and be completely rude. This has been an ongoing thing for as long as I can remember and I can't seem to understand it. I've always done right by her. Evertime she has needed me, I've been there for her.

Lately, this has been bothering me more and more because now her husband is doing the same thing. I could be sitting there talking to my sister and she'll ask what I think about something and then her husband will come out of nowhere and say: "shut up you dumb bitch!" and then I'll look at my sister and she'll look at him and laugh and say: "oh, he's just joking hahaha" and I'll say: "what was so funny about that?" and she'll say: "god! you're no fun! take a joke!". It's always that type of shit or it could be... my sister did something and she was in the wrong and she'll realize it and feel bad, but then her husband comes into the picture and he'll change her mind into thinking she wasn't wrong, when clearly she was. Sometimes he'll even witness her doing something mean or rude to someone and everyone there looks at her like "geez" and then he'll be like: "don't worry babe, there is nothing wrong with what you did." He always seems to be supporting her when she does something wrong. I understand that when you're married you have each others back, but I also thought that when your S.O. is wrong about something that they did, you talk about it and figure out ways to fix it.

I don't mean to ramble, but I don't know what to do. I do love my sister, but being around her is bringing me down. Sometimes I can't help but to think that its my fault. I mean, how could people be so mean if it wasn't my fault? I'm so confused. And like I said before... sometimes she'll be my best friend, and then BAM, she acts like I'm the worst thing that ever came into existence. Is it me? Is it my fault?

Does anybody have any advice? because I don't know what to do...

07-03-2006, 04:12 PM	#1 (permalink)
MySexyAssJ Tilted Location: Los Angeles	is it my fault? ::sorry if its kinda long...:: Ever since I was little I've had problems with my older sister. One minute she'll be my best friend and then within a blink of an eye she'll turn on me and be completely rude. This has been an ongoing thing for as long as I can remember and I can't seem to understand it. I've always done right by her. Evertime she has needed me, I've been there for her. Lately, this has been bothering me more and more because now her husband is doing the same thing. I could be sitting there talking to my sister and she'll ask what I think about something and then her husband will come out of nowhere and say: "shut up you dumb bitch!" and then I'll look at my sister and she'll look at him and laugh and say: "oh, he's just joking hahaha" and I'll say: "what was so funny about that?" and she'll say: "god! you're no fun! take a joke!". It's always that type of shit or it could be... my sister did something and she was in the wrong and she'll realize it and feel bad, but then her husband comes into the picture and he'll change her mind into thinking she wasn't wrong, when clearly she was. Sometimes he'll even witness her doing something mean or rude to someone and everyone there looks at her like "geez" and then he'll be like: "don't worry babe, there is nothing wrong with what you did." He always seems to be supporting her when she does something wrong. I understand that when you're married you have each others back, but I also thought that when your S.O. is wrong about something that they did, you talk about it and figure out ways to fix it. I don't mean to ramble, but I don't know what to do. I do love my sister, but being around her is bringing me down. Sometimes I can't help but to think that its my fault. I mean, how could people be so mean if it wasn't my fault? I'm so confused. And like I said before... sometimes she'll be my best friend, and then BAM, she acts like I'm the worst thing that ever came into existence. Is it me? Is it my fault? Does anybody have any advice? because I don't know what to do... __________________ Once bitten, Twice shy.