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If it really doesn't matter, then... why does it matter?
Face it: you have a preference. If you're honest with yourself about that, you can be responsible for it and honest about it when you talk with her and it'll all be okay. If you're not honest with yourself about that, you'll try to hide it or lie about it, and end up being a sneaky, manipulative weasel in the conversation, and put exactly the pressure on her that you don't want to put on her.
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