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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq
yet each time someone does post with or without an experience you engage it as such there is something for you to examine. when the experience positive and negative has been laid out you have not commented on it. when someone has commented on the situation with what they think the situation may or may not turn out based on their experience you have engaged it in discussion. Odd that you do not want to discuss it in claim, but here your actions speak louder than words. See you want to discuss it, you want to "figure this issue out" yet seem to be in denial of that fact. Even the ladies that have commented without situation but of their own reaction to spur discussion, youīve dismissed as "thatīs not the answer Iīm looking for so I donīt think your situation applies to me."
I stated that I have had both situations and it worked out once, it did not work out another time. I didnīt give any details, yet youīre donīt seem interested in the, you only seem interested in discussing the fact that the experiences laid out here do not apply to you and you donīt think itīs that way, again, thinking you are terminally unique.
Finally, your thread title wasnīt, "Please share your experiences about someone telling a friend they want to be more than friends." No, itīs "Tell her how you feel?"
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I disagree completely, with exception to the title. You're right that it's different than the goal of my post, but I think you are drawing way too many conclusions from text. When the ladies shared experiences, I asked for more information. When they gave advice, I disagreed, or offered a counter point. Did you ever stop and think that no one, not one single person, could read the text on any one of these threads in this forum and fully understand what is going on? For fucks sake, I can't believe the arrogance of some of you who think you are so right based on some printed text on a forum. Advice is one thing, but it's still just an opinion and not law. You are so arrogant in your thinking that you have me pegged, that you don't even stop for a moment to consider how wrong you might actually be. You keep trying to tell me that my situation is not unique (with an overused adjective modifier to make you sound smarter), but that everyone is different. Different and unique are what we refer to as mutually exclusive. Face it buddy, you don't have me pegged. I never expected, wanted, or asked you to either. I asked for advice, which clearly was a huge mistake, and for people to post their scenarios. That IS what this place is about right? Sharing? So stop trying so hard and follow the guidelines of the thread or get the fuck out.
You should probably read the posts more carefully. On second thought, don't. That'll just incent you to respond again.
You didn't post your situation. You posted two vague outcomes of your situation. If you want to contribute, post the scenario and details around the situation. Maybe something was different (besides the people) in each of your situations that is useful. Maybe not.
Please feel free to stop responding to this thread. Your urge to be right and make me look wrong is making every single one of your posts completely useless. I don't have time for some internet forum guy who thinks he's got everyone all figured out from text. Either you trust that I don't have something to prove, or you've got your own set of problems. I couldn't care less either way and would prefer you step out of the conversation all together.
I can't believe a moderator is crapping threads... thought this place was more mature than that.