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yet each time someone does post with or without an experience you engage it as such there is something for you to examine. when the experience positive and negative has been laid out you have not commented on it. when someone has commented on the situation with what they think the situation may or may not turn out based on their experience you have engaged it in discussion. Odd that you do not want to discuss it in claim, but here your actions speak louder than words. See you want to discuss it, you want to "figure this issue out" yet seem to be in denial of that fact. Even the ladies that have commented without situation but of their own reaction to spur discussion, you´ve dismissed as "that´s not the answer I´m looking for so I don´t think your situation applies to me."

I stated that I have had both situations and it worked out once, it did not work out another time. I didn´t give any details, yet you´re don´t seem interested in the, you only seem interested in discussing the fact that the experiences laid out here do not apply to you and you don´t think it´s that way, again, thinking you are terminally unique.

Finally, your thread title wasn´t, "Please share your experiences about someone telling a friend they want to be more than friends." No, it´s "Tell her how you feel?"

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