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Originally Posted by Martel
The problem here, d00t, is that what you're saying is exactly the same as every other guy who comes on the forums and moans about wanting to let some girl know how he feels but not wanting to jeopardize their friendship.
I think you think your situation is somehow different, but it doesn't really sound like it to me.
Either way, moving in with her while you have a secret crush = bad idea, so you need to get some resolution one way or another.
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Yea I can understand that. I think my situation is different because I'm not asking you guys if I should or shouldn't . That's my dillema. I'm not asking you what to say, I'm comfortable enough to do that. Done it before in all types of situations, just not one this complicated. I'm not on here because I like to waste time. I'm on here to make sure I have my situation thought through.
Which is why I mainly asked for people to share similar experiences.
None of the advice I'm going to get is going to affect my decision. A bunch of arm chair relationship experts we are not. But we are people who have had experiences. Experience everyone can learn from. If I read about some similar situations others were in it might give me some insight on what manner I approach the situation in. But no one here is going to affect my decision to approach her. Really the only thing I'm shaky on is timing. But that's nothing you guys can help me with because that's by feel, not by rules.
So let's just stick with situations from now on.
Similar Situations. You got em? Post em.