The problem here, d00t, is that what you're saying is exactly the same as every other guy who comes on the forums and moans about wanting to let some girl know how he feels but not wanting to jeopardize their friendship.
I think you think your situation is somehow different, but it doesn't really sound like it to me.
Either way, moving in with her while you have a secret crush = bad idea, so you need to get some resolution one way or another.
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