I actually had a guy get on here after I had mentioned it once and read my journal.
My LiveJournal, etc. I expect to be read, and are edited appropriately, or locked. I hadn't expected my journal here to be read, and when I received a call about it from him, I tried to act all cool, but I felt like it was a huge invasion of my privacy because of all the effort involved. For quite a while afterwards, my entries were locked to journal buddies.
But like I said--when you put something in as public a forum as your Xanga, you expect things to be read. But personally, I think it's kind of rude to not let her know that you've been reading it.
At any rate--on another note--take it easy. You're just out of a long-term relationship. Stop and get your breath first before trying to jump into anything else.
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