"Whatever, I told him that I didn't want to be with him and he took that as, give her time and it will work out. "
Did she tell you this? You didn't say in your post, and I assume from your tone that you were suprised to read what she had to say.
If she didn't make her intentions clear, I'd say she's more ethically in the wrong by writing that in her journal without actually telling you.
I'd say if she wrote that, and she didn't tell you, she probably didn't care if you found it. It might even be the case that she wrote it on purpose so you would find it and she could take the cowards way out of telling you. By writing that in her blog she's allowed herself to come off as the stronger person when she's really probably just a coward. She's trying to empower and reafirm her insecurities via written word. If she did tell you before she wrote that, then it probably doesn't apply.
I wouldn't worry about the ethical side of it. If anything bro, you were just a friend wanting to keep up with a long distance friend. That's what blogs are for, right?
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