Thanks for the insight guys. While I'll have to agree that I brought this up to try to alleviate some guilt I have to read it without ever telling her.
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Did she give you any indication that she wasn't that into you or did she just plain tell you?
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We had a conversation and I asked what on earth was bothering her and was about to leave out of frustration when she finally said she was too busy with school and work right now and her family was still irking her a bit. Now I guess I missed the part when she was trying to tell me that she didnt have time for me and was trying to let me off easily! Oh well, I'll have to work on that.
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That you're wondering is a sign that as for your ethics, you went borderline, or maybe a little over, because it feels like you intruded on her personal thoughts and feelings.
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I was thinking the same thing. Its my way to try to get a crowd (even if its an anonymous forum) to my point of view.
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You're hurt because she seems to have been deceptive, but .... tit for tat.
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I wouldn't say I was hurt but I also get your point. But I would rather have it end like this by reading it than try to persue her more and cause more undue harm. While I might try to bring this up later, I'll let both her and myself cool for a while. I might see whats up when classes are back in session. And I might just try to keep her as a friend. We never became that serious that this is still an option.
So thanks again guys, and more opinions are always welcome.