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She's very attracted to someone she isn't going to get. She's planning on becomming roomates with me. Suddenly I tell her she's the bee's knees and now she has a bunch of complicated drama in her life she didn't ask for. Is that fair to her?
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It would be a lot less fair to wait and have it come out that you are really into her AFTER you've both signed a lease on an apartment together.
I think living with her while you secretly have the hots for her and she's pining away for some other dude would be a really bad idea, so my advice is to get it all worked out sooner rather than later, no matter how it ends up.