I know you want support Kt but this type of emotional dependency destroys relationships unless there is a very strurdy foundation. You should be using men in your life to help you grow stronger as a person rather then a crutch to help you put up with pain from the past.
Talk to a professional about this. When things get bad, spread out the burden between your friends, family and guy, so no one person has to bear it all.
Hope this works out for you.
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