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It's a very uncomfortable topic for some people to deal with -and they don't know what to say... Honestly, if you are talking because you need to talk about it, you really should be in an environment where people do understand.. I'd check with your local rape crisis center, or women's center and see if they have any group or individual sessions you can attend.
When you do talk to your boyfriend... what do you want him to say? How do you want him to react? Do you want him to just listen and not say anything? Or do you want him to suggest alternatives?
It's a tough thing for people who haven't been sexually assaulted to truly comprehend what it's like and the feelings that are involved... You should be able to talk to him about anything... but maybe he needs to be eased into it...
Running away isn't an answer... honestly.. sounds like you need to deal with it first... and then at that point what you share with others will fall into place...
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