I can understand the moving to get away from the physical reminders. I'm looking forward to moving away from here, as everywhere I go are reminders of my ex-best friend.
Ratbastid and his toolbox analogy hit the nail on the head (damn puns!). Your bf wants to fix what's wrong. You'll have to remind him everytime you talk to him about what's going on that you just want him to listen, you don't want him to fix things. Start every conversation with "I just want you to listen to me for awhile. There's nothing that can or needs to be fixed, I just need to get this out of my system."
We love you too, and we're glad that you feel comfortable enough to be able to share these parts of your life with us. If there's anything we can do to help, even if it's just listen, just let us know. =)
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