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well... i'm afraid I have no solution to the immediate dillema... but i can give you some advice on space.
find hobbies that the two of you can enjoy equally, but separately. Schedule some time apart every week, and be sure to have friends that you can hang out with separately as well as together. (ie - girls go hang out together while guys watch football or play video games)
Turbotom and I had it worked out pretty well last semester. He had college football, and I had an all-day Saturday art class. (this semester I'm 500 miles away and it's killing me to be so far)
the point is: have mechanisms in place that will allow you to safely, without offense, take time off from one another before the smother effect takes place. Your relationship will be happier for it.
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