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Originally Posted by HoneyPot
Ok so get this.... He changed his story. He said he stayed at a 'friends' house in the town he was partying at. I asked if there were girls and he said yes. Then remember the part about his 'phone was dead'? BULLCRAP! You know how I know why? Because his friend, we'll call him Dan called him at 4 in the morning, which is about the same time I told my friend, Mary, that he hadn't come home yet. Mary text Dan (b/c she is friends with him) and he called my SO at the same exact time. His phone wasn't dead. He could have called. I feel like something fishy is going on. Then I saw a text on his phone that said 'sup wit that jesse girl' at 3AM!!!!! What the hell!!!!! I'm totally not being paranoid on this one.
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Here 'Ya Go.....I'll give you exactly what you are fishing for:
Hes cheating on you with a Taiwanese Callgirl who pole dances in an alley behing the 7/11. He also loves to watch Midgets twirl Cats overhead by the tail late at night while you sleep. Once you come to terms with this oddity in his personality
(and realize he flys to New Hampshire every other tuesday for sex with a sheep), all will be well between you two, though a well trained therapist would be benefitial in the following decades.
The point is ......you are destroying any attempt at happiness in this relationship by talking to Us...instead of him. It sounds as if you have already decided he is messing around, and so trust is a rather Mute point. If you actually want a relationship to work the #1 thing...the Basis of trust...the REASON love lasts....is communication.
You need to learn this part of the Game....and live it. otherwise you will continue to destroy every relationship you have, and feel the ensuing pain of loss. This thread is a freakin' Manual on "How to drive a man away".....I suggest you reread it with your Boyfriends eyes, and ask yourself if he would run like hell if he saw it.
I know I would